Saturday, June 15, 2024

The lives of Regency vicar's daughters

 I have a few blog posts left over from a tour I had when The Earl's Cinderella Countess was released!  This one was lots of fun--a bit of discussion on the lives of vicars' daughters....



The question I was asked is—what was life like for a vicar’s daughter in the Regency? Since I am a research junkie, I love this question! Eleanor (Ella) and her sister Mary (who will be the heroine of the next book in the series!) are in a slightly different situation, since their mother died when they were young and Ella took over many of the responsibilities of the vicarage. When I first started this book, my knowledge of clergy life in the 18th/early 19th century was mostly from Charlotte Lucas (ewww, Mr. Collins! But she did seem to enjoy the job itself, having her own house and helping parishioners), and Mrs. Elton from Emma, who didn’t seem to do much besides be snobby and form musical societies. (Plus the Brontes, of course, though Patrick Bronte’s parish was very different from that of the St. Aubins’ father in my book, since Haworth was poor and industrial). So I enjoyed diving into it all a bit more.

A vicar’s wife would, like most women of the time, keep her household. If her husband had a good living (like Mr. Collins, thanks to Lady Catherine de Bourgh!), it could be quite substantial, with a rather large staff, a nice garden, chances to entertain. If it was poorer, like the Brontes, she might take on some of the more menial chores herself, but this was a position of respect and authority in the neighborhood. The wife (or, in my story, daughter) of the vicar would visit the poor and sick, counsel with them, bring them hampers, coo over new babies, witness weddings, keep her husband apprised of what’s going on with parishoners. She would also attend parties, charm the local gentry, organize church events like fetes, the flower roster, childrens’ activities. It was a big job!

Ella St. Aubin has been in love with Frederick Fleetwood, the younger son of their neighbor the Earl, since they were children, but never expected that she, the daughter of a vicar (who probably owes his living to Fred’s father!) could marry him. And she has to take over her mother’s role in housekeeping and parish duties, as well as looking after her younger sister, so is kept busy while Fred goes into the Army. Things change when they grow up, though!

Amanda Vickery’s The Gentleman’s Daughter: Women’s Lives in Georgian England is a great source for more about women’s roles in the period! It’s a fascinating time….

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